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Scripture holds the power to be one of the greatest sources of healing

Tragically, many survivors have endured profound trauma not only at the hands of abusers but also through the misuse of the Bible—whether by abusers themselves, by those who enabled them, or even by survivors misapplying Scripture to their own pain. Too often, pastors, families, and churches lack the training to apply biblical texts wisely in these situations, or to challenge the most common misuses of Scripture that wound rather than heal.

To Heal or Harm was written to confront this reality.

Now, with the release of the To Heal or Harm Study Guide, this message becomes even more accessible and transformative.

Designed for both individuals and groups, the study guide creates a pathway to engage deeply with the material—offering guided reflection, thoughtful questions, and practical tools to help readers process, discuss, and apply what they are learning in safe and meaningful ways. Together, the book and study guide provide not just information, but formation—equipping survivors, pastors, counselors, and advocates to discern the difference between Scripture used as a weapon and Scripture offered as true healing.

  • A foundational guide to the richness of Scripture and principles for faithful biblical interpretation.
  • A survey of frequently misused texts, organized by topic such as family and church, with clear explanations of what they do and do not mean.
  • Practical insight into how these texts can be properly applied to bring hope and healing for survivors.
  • A collection of key biblical passages that offer protection, comfort, and restoration for those who have suffered abuse.
  • Appendices surveying biblical teachings on abuse-related topics for quick reference.

Both pastoral and practical, this book empowers Christians to resist harmful distortions of God’s Word and to bring Scripture’s life-giving truth into the darkest places of trauma and pain.

Naghmeh Abedini

Speaker & Author of I Didn't Survive

"This book is a gift to survivors and to anyone seeking to understand the healing power of Scripture when it is rightly handled."

Nijay K. Gupta

Professor of New Testament, Northern Seminary

"If you want to rightly handle the word of truth, read this book; it is the closest thing to a 'safety manual' for the Bible I have ever read."

Laura A. Roberts

PsyD, Cornerstone Clinical Services

"Free from cliches, oversimplifications, and platitudes, the author's profound respect for Scripture brings both relief and release to those impacted by traumatic harm."

FEATURED PODCASTS

This growing series of conversations explores the themes of To Heal or Harm with honesty, care, and a deep hope for restoration. You’ll hear stories, reflections, and thoughtful dialogue about faith, Scripture, and healing in the real world. Pour a cup of something warm, press play, and join us at the table.

Why We Need to Heal, Not Harm, Abuse Survivors– Episode #40 by Jude DiMeglio Trang

Abuse is always about misuse of God-given power. Power in and of itself is neutral. But when you misuse your power it can become incredibly destructive. ~ Dr. Steve Tracy

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